Loneliness can be positive!

Loneliness
A very negatively termed concept by society. But what if we explore another way to look at it?  let's do it then for me, for you, and for everyone who is and who has been through it.
All of us face adverse effects of loneliness as we are not habitual of being with our selves. Thinking over it, loneliness won't be an issue if we are habitual of our own company and if we are satisfied with our selves. All of us have felt betrayed sometimes or the others in our lives. It brings us emotions like sadness, blankness and many others that we term to be negative. We may come across such situations due to the unfulfilled expectations that we have from relationships that we share with our family, friends, and society. What if we build our selves in such a way that these feelings won't have to break us down into anxiety. First of all, what we have to do is give attention to our selves. Spend time doing things that make us happy. Doing this would bring you relief and a feeling of positivity within yourself. Once you start investing in yourself gradually you will realize its productivity and the positivity it brings in your life.  Secondly, you should stop expecting things from people around you instead start expecting from your self and then investing in yourselves to fulfill those expectations. This will bring you at a stage of self-sufficiency. once you feel satisfied by yourselves you won't need someone else to satisfy you. It will bring you another level of satisfaction that you have never experienced before. Being happy is an art and not everyone knows it. Remember feelings cannot be overcome but yes they can be molded positively so that you can be fresh, confident, and positive even in your hard times. We can't avoid tough times but yes we can decrease their intensity and effect on us by staying happy and by not letting the so-called negatives affect our individuality. Ones you become self-satisfied these problems won't be as disastrous as they were before to you, instead you will start finding sunshine even at the darkest hour of your life. Finally, you now arrive at the final stage of self-consent and self-motivation where you consent with yourself where you motivate yourself to believe in your power to heal your problems because no one other than you can really help you to overcome your problems and make way for you to become happy, confident and a positive individual who not only leads a healthy life but influences people around you emphatically.

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  1. Unknown23 August 2019 at 23:16

    👍👍👍

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  2. Unknown24 August 2019 at 00:40

    ❤️

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  3. Shatanand24 August 2019 at 05:08

    ✌️♥️

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  4. Unknown24 August 2019 at 05:36

    Waaaa very different way to see the loneliness very nice writing keep it up gauri

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    1. Shambhavi Kulkarni26 August 2019 at 09:26

      Thank you so much for your valuable review. I hope I keep on writing more positive stuff in my upcoming blogs.

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  5. Unknown24 August 2019 at 07:23

    A positive aspect towards a negative term can totally change it's meaning.... Such a great effort.... Proud of you di... Keep it up.... Supporting you...✌✌💓

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    1. Shambhavi Kulkarni26 August 2019 at 09:42

      thank you so much for your support. I hope it reaches as many people as it can and do help those who are in need of a new point of view in life.

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  6. Unknown24 August 2019 at 08:09

    ❤❤❤❤💯

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  7. Atharv K26 August 2019 at 05:28

    Thats one hell of a piece i read in a long time!
    I think the use of words and feeling is nothing but gorgeous!!
    Keep writing!

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    1. Shambhavi Kulkarni26 August 2019 at 09:27

      thank you so much for your precious review. I hope I do bring up more of good content in my further blogs.

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  8. Unknown26 August 2019 at 08:44

    👌👏❤✌✌

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  9. Shambhavi Kulkarni26 August 2019 at 09:44

    Thank you so much guys for your support and appreciation. I wish this blog reaches as many people as it can so that no one feels NEGATIVE in this phase of their life.

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  10. Unknown31 August 2019 at 04:16

    It's realy very good 👍💟

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  11. Shambhavi Kulkarni4 September 2019 at 09:35

    Well sourabh everyone does experiences it at least once in their life and so this blog is created so that the intensity of their negativeness decreases.

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    1. Sourabh Pharande6 September 2019 at 08:28

      A suggestion you should write comparison like if you feeling this how you should you feel in the positive way

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    2. Shambhavi Kulkarni24 September 2019 at 01:12

      Ok tysm for your suggestion

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