Jealousy

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I want an I-phone because my friend has one, how can he be more popular then me, people pay more attention to her..... And on and on and on.

Two different types of people exist in this world-first those who appreciate your progress and wish for your success, Second, those who show appreciation but deep within aren’t happy to see you succeed.

The second type consists majority portion and the first type has rare jewels. Today we will discuss jealousy. Everyone in their life has felt jealous for someone, or of something at some point in their life. It is a very contradictory topic to discuss. It already has both its sides(positive and negative) in existence.

We say “no true love exists without jealousy” this is the positive one and again those I described above are the negative ones. This negative jealousy has such a huge effect on our mind that it may result even in the birth of crime. Being honest I was left blank and had no idea on how to cover this topic in a single blog. I don’t think that you people are unaware of this term called jealousy. 

Everyone in this world thinks that I am not jealous of anyone; is it? Jealousy comes very subconsciously. That one thought that struck our mind even for a second may lead to major jealousy that we won’t even know exists and is affecting our life.

Now the question that arouses in our mind is how do we heal something that we are completely unaware of its existence? The one thing that I have tried to cover over my blogs is focusing on oneself and that’s where our answer lies.

The main source of jealousy is COMPARISON. We, humans, have this weird habit of comparing oneself with others. Sometimes we get relieved to know that we have done better than others, and also sometimes we may feel envy because someone else did better than us. And the fact is we compare to relieve ourselves and tell ourselves that we are superior; and when this thing doesn’t happen the feelings of jealousy and envy enter in our life. These feelings have the potential to completely change our lives upside down. Now the point to be noted is nothing can happen to us without our permission. 

Here, I am going to contradict many things!

If we are sorted deep within our mind then jealousy won’t even try to come in the picture.

Once we are satisfied with who we are, what we have, what we have done, what we are doing and what we are going to do and how life has molded us into a better version of ourselves we will stop comparing ourselves with others and start enjoying about the things that we did, about the twists and turns life brings to us and everything would be just magical. 

You will be amazed to see the miracles life brings to us and instead of being jealous we will be appreciative of us and others. So let’s start focusing on ourselves to be a better version every day that we live. 

Let’s live our life to its fullest by eliminating all these N’s and again focusing on the P’s. Let’s aim to become those rare jewels who’s mere existence spreads the fragrance of positivity in the society full of negativity.

Be positive stay happy!