USE

USE ∞😕😐😉😊

What comes in a normal human’s mind after listening to this word ‘use’. We use different things, different resources in our day to day life, isn’t it? You may find people around you who tell you that “someone’s using me” or “I feel useless”. Well, many times people around you use you as a stepping stone to achieving something else. An employer uses an employee as a machine to reach nearer to his dreams, a child uses his parents as a protective barrier from the exposure out there, a friend uses your connection to make things happen and so on. Ultimately, everyone around us uses everyone else for some reason or the other. And if everyone is fulfilling their requirements then why does this concept of using a person comes around in a negative way!
Now, here the payback(∞)concept takes place. We being humans not only use people for variable reasons but invest our feelings in them. And this investment is just like a medicare investment; if you die you get the money and if you don’t you just go into the drain. You never know how and why you are being used. But the feelings of pain and sorrow exist whenever you feel like being used.
Now the question that arouses in one’s mind is how to prevent these negative feelings? Let me clear one thing that these feelings cannot be prevented, they can just be treated in a way that instead of harming they will build you. We know, we are the ones responsible for what happens in our life, we are the ones responsible for what actions we take, and what we do now is something that we will get back in time. While saying “someone used me” keep in mind they had a purpose set within their minds before every interaction they made with you.
So now, when I have this thing all set in my mind that anyone in this freaking world interacts with me or connects with me is for a purpose and the day their purpose gets achieved they will no longer value me as much as they valued me before. This thought subconsciously will prepare yourself to deal with this feeling of being used. Its all just one thought away guys! Reach that thought before interacting with people and that thought itself will make sure to make you strong and tough.
People use you cause you are USEFUL.😉
Be positive stay happy!

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  1. TEJAS KALE14 October 2019 at 07:40

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  2. Harshali14 October 2019 at 07:41

    Superb dude🤘 Very true said... Nothing is useless in this world...!! U have Great way of expressing👍☺ Ur thoughts are beautiful....
    Not everyone has this talent of imagining and expressing... But u have it... .very proud of u Dear😍
    Most ossam thing about ur blog is ur way of giving very different and unique message through ur blog...just keep it up... Keep going... Write more and more blogs Siso.. As I like wonderful things to read.. Like ur blog😍
    Waiting for ur new blog... JuZ keep writing I will keep reading.. .. Love u shambhavi😘

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    1. Shambhavi Kulkarni14 October 2019 at 08:37

      Thank you Soo much dear lady. I hope you found your time worth reading it. keep loving this is what appreciates me to write. Stay happy!

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  3. TEJAS KALE14 October 2019 at 07:42

    You really used ,USE in a good way Shambhavi

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  4. Unknown14 October 2019 at 07:42

    Superb :)

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  5. VEDANT MAVALE14 October 2019 at 07:43

    Nice blog keep writing 🤘🤘

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  6. Unknown14 October 2019 at 07:45

    👌👌👌

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  7. Yashodip sonawane14 October 2019 at 07:58

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    1. Shambhavi Kulkarni14 October 2019 at 08:41

      Yeah nothing is useless! even a white pencil is used if you want to create a masterpiece of a painting. Thank you for your view!

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  8. Subhashchandra K14 October 2019 at 08:32

    Heart Touching Blog.People interact with Another People with Reason/s.Only Thing Is That We Have To Realize The Reason behind it For This We Need To Read Mind of People.Same Facts Are Nicely Explained In This Blog. Keep It Up.

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    1. Shambhavi Kulkarni14 October 2019 at 08:40

      Thank you so much for your view. It really means a lot. This is what appreciates me to write. Thank you!

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  9. Shambhavi Kulkarni14 October 2019 at 09:30

    Thank you Soo much for appreciation! I hope you like the previous blogs too!

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  10. Piyush Patole14 October 2019 at 09:42

    Nice 👌👌👌
    Keep writing. Really heaet touching.Keep it up

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    1. Shambhavi Kulkarni14 October 2019 at 09:45

      Thanks a lot for appreciation. I hope I can write more of good content that you guys like.
      Thank you!

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  11. vaidehisl14 October 2019 at 10:02

    Well written dear... We realky need this positive spirit around us..

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    1. Shambhavi Kulkarni14 October 2019 at 10:11

      Thank you Soo much.
      That's what I'm trying to do spread add much as possible as much I can. Thanks for the appreciation.

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  12. Unknown14 October 2019 at 10:48

    Khup Chan, motivating

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  13. swara15 October 2019 at 00:50

    Its a wonderful blog... I feel very positive approach in this blog; which I always use with myself... Not to worry be happy... My sir also tell me the same thing you wrote here... PEOPLE USES YOU CAUSE YOU ARE USEFULL....

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    1. Shambhavi Kulkarni15 October 2019 at 02:24

      Thank you so much for giving a review. Teachers play a really very important role in our life to make us grow.

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  14. Atharv K15 October 2019 at 01:53

    Great perspective!
    Loved it!
    Keep Writing!!!

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  15. T. Anjali15 October 2019 at 07:38

    #Well written.. It's vry motivative. Blog #write more &more

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  16. DWARKESH VIRKHARE16 October 2019 at 03:28

    You really have talent of it because not everyone can do blogg wirting on small concepts which you have took . Very nice I am totally appreciate it . Keep it up . 'USEING' Your skills keep writing like this

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    1. Shambhavi Kulkarni16 October 2019 at 12:22

      Thank you so much for your appreciation. It really means a lot for me.

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  17. Aashay Zanpure17 October 2019 at 12:37

    Excellently put. You have a way of making a statement sound 100% true. Keep it up!

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  18. Sourabh Pharande18 October 2019 at 03:00

    Very thoughtful

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  19. Unknown18 October 2019 at 03:56

    Hey shambhavi , your thoughts is really nice,😊 keep writing dear ,I'm waiting for ur upcoming blog .

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    1. Shambhavi Kulkarni18 October 2019 at 04:01

      Thank you so much for your appreciation. I hope you'll be surprised by my next blog and thanks for your time.

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  20. Unknown22 October 2019 at 05:22

    👆👆❤️❤️

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